At age thirty-three, plagued by severe OCD, Penelope Winters felt she was doomed to remain single forever. For the first time, she sought outside help by signing up for a course. This was the first step of the journey that would literally change her ... Read more

At age thirty-three, plagued by severe OCD, Penelope Winters felt she was doomed to remain single forever. For the first time, she sought outside help by signing up for a course. This was the first step of the journey that would literally change her life. In that class, she formed new friendships and perspectives that empowered her to take the next step, and the next. Today Penelope is happily married. Looking back upon the journey that led her to where she is today, she became inspired to chart this path for women who are just like her-unlucky in love but unwilling to let go of their dream of being loved truly and well.Through a creative, multipronged approach (incorporating therapy, meditation, affirmation, drawing, singing, and various other practices) Penelope learned to love, accept and embrace her true self. She came to anticipate the love, respect and devotion of a wonderful man, who would eventually appear in her life as if by magic. But it wasn't magic that brought Penelope her perfect match; she shaped her own destiny, and you can find out exactly how she did it.Finding a Guy Like Gilbert - a Dating Manifesto is a self-help guide for the woman who thinks she has tried everything and is almost ready to give up looking for love-but not quite yet! You have dated all the wrong guys and you're more than ready to meet the right one, but lately you feel so jaded that you honestly wonder if there's anyone out there for you or whether you'll recognise him even if he appears. The truth is that you've been out there for so long that you've likely developed some attitudes and patterns that may be sabotaging your chances.With all the warmth and wit of a tough yet kindhearted big sister, Winters takes you by the hand and walks you through the steps of opening your mind and your heart to prepare for love. You'll get honest answers to your questions about dating. Should I proactively search for love or patiently wait for it to come and find me? How much time and money should I spend preparing for a date? Should we be discussing politics and philosophy on the first date or sticking to small talk? You'll be prepared for the issues that commonly arise once you're a bit deeper into the relationship. Is he still in love with his ex? Is jealousy ever okay? Why can't he seem to take a hint? This book spills all of the valuable dating intel that Penelope and her friends have accrued across the years. Everything they wish they would have known back then; you can know right now.This clear, step-by-step guide shares best practices, dating dilemmas, and common pitfalls, illustrated by real life experiences and anecdotes. You'll know how to stay safe and maintain your sense of self, sanity and humour while navigating the world of dating. You'll learn how to attract your ideal partner into your life and how to be ready for him when he manifests. You'll rediscover your sense of excitement, hope, confidence and joy, while having a lot of fun and getting to know yourself.Penelope Winters takes you on such a heartfelt journey through the challenges of finding your happily ever after. You feel as though she is accompanying you every step of the way. Penelope's valuable tools and warm, open-hearted support make this a must-read for anyone looking for love! Debra Newell. Debra's incredible survival story, told in 2018's breakout Bravo Series Dirty John is known worldwide. She is a tireless advocate and helper to women trapped in abusive and coercive control relationships.Finding a Guy Like Gilbert - a Dating Manifesto' is a delightful little book that I found completely relatable. Definitely an eye-opener. As I go through my own book of revelations I find myself thinking of this book! A beautiful, short read. Sommer Wayne Dyer. Daughter of Dr Wayne Dyer, artist and student.Instagram @penelope_goes_dating Less